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Ese dushobora kubwira abana bacu ahahise hacu?


Yanditswe na: Ubwanditsi     2020-12-03 07:48:23


Ese dushobora kubwira abana bacu ahahise hacu?

Mu buzima bwa buri munsi umubabaro ntushobora kubura kuri twe kandi hari amakosa twagiye dukora .Ariko iyo tubwiye abana bacu ahahise hacu tukabereka n’uko turimo kubigenza ngo ibitaratunejeje bihinduke, nibwo nabo babimenya bagasobanukirwa icyerecyezo n’uruhare rwabo mu kubaka ahazaza habo heza.

Umunsi umwe hari ku cyumweru mu rusengero, umugabo n’umugore badusangije inkuru itoroshye y’ukuntu umugabo yakoreye umugore we ubugome bwo kumuca inyuma imyaka myinshi. Umugore we amaze kumenya amakuru ateye ubwoba y’uko umugabo amuhemukira, yumvise ahamagariwe n’Imana gushikama mu rushako no gusengera umugabo we akihana.

Umugore Yasenze imyaka myinshi, nta gucika intege ashaka ko umugabo we yakizwa akareka izo ngeso mbi.

Icyo gihe abakobwa babo, nabo barababaye cyane bitewe n’ibikorwa bya se, batangira gusenga. Uyu muryango wari ukeneye Imana kugira ngo igarure amahoro mu rushako n’umuryango wabo wasaga nk’aho wacitse intege.

Uyu muryango wari uri imbere y’iteraniro bagamije kuvuga amateka yabo. Igishimishije, ibi bivuze ko umugabo yamenye ko ibyo yakoraga atari byiza kandi yarihannye asaba imbabzi kubera ibikorwa bibi ndetse yiyemeza kongera kubaka umuryango we.

Ni iki dukwiye kubwira abana bacu ku bijyanye n’ahahise hacu

Amakosa n’umubabaro bishobora kutwihererana, ariko abana bacu bakeneye kumva uko twatsinze ibihe bikomeye twanyuzemo. Ibibi twanyuzemo bishobora kuducecekesha ariko ntidukwiye guceceka kuko kubivuga nibyo biha abana bacu icyizere bakamenya ko twahindutse bashya.

Nyuma yo kudusangiza iyo nkuru, wa mugabo wari warananiye umugore we amuca inyuma yaravuze ati:"Uyu munsi izina ryanjye ryarahindutse sinkitwa umusambanyi ahubwo ndi umugabo ukijijwe". N’ubwo uyu mugabo yihannye ariko mbere yumvaga afite ipfunwe ry’ukuntu yatinyuka kubivuga abana n’umugore bamwumva.

Uyu mugabo yasobanukiwe ko mbere atari uwo kwizerwa, yikundaga, yihugiragaho ndetse agatsindwa kuzuza inshingano z’urugo. Ariko amaze gufata icyemezo cyo kwihana yabaye umubyeyi mwiza wo kwizerwa imbere y’umuryango we n’Imana.

Mubyukuri mu buzima habaho igihe ababyeyi bakoze amakosa, ariko ni ngombwa kuyasabira imbabazi kuko niyo ntambwe ya mbere. Intambwe ya kabiri ni ukwakira imbabazi. Uyu mugabo twabonye yakiriye imbabazi zivuye ku muryango we, ariko nawe yatangiye kwibabarira kubera ubusambanyi yakoze.

Hatitawe ku mahitamo mabi twakoze cyangwa ibibi twakoreye abandi, iyo tumaze kwihana ntibitinda guhinduka bishya. Ntuterwe ubwoba n’ahahise ahubwo hitamo inzira nziza kugira ngo uyiyobore igisekeru kizagukurikira kandi abana bawe bazabigushimira.

Source: familylife.com

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