Kwimenya no kumenya uwo mwashakanye, intwaro(...)

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Kwimenya no kumenya uwo mwashakanye, intwaro yo gutsinda amakimbirane(2)


Yanditswe na: Ubwanditsi     2021-02-24 04:46:58


Kwimenya no kumenya uwo mwashakanye, intwaro yo gutsinda amakimbirane(2)

Mu buzima busanzwe intandaro yo gusenyuka kw’ingo ni amakimbirane hagati y’abashakanye. Mubyukuri nta rugo rudakimbirana, ariko iyo abarwubatse bombi baziranye ku miterere yabo, bibafasha gukemura ikibazo cyose bashobora kugirana bityo ugasanga umunezero utashye iwabo. Mu gice cya 1 twarebeye hamwe imiterere y’abantu bitwa sanguine ndetse na Chorelique. Uyu munsi turarebera hamwe abitwa Melancholic n’abitwa Phlegmatic.

Melancholic

Hari ibintu by’ingenzi ukwiye kumenya kuri uyu muntu: Melancholic ni umuntu ugira analyse cyane, ibintu byose biri ngombwa n’ibitari ngombwa abitekerezaho cyane. Nk’uko twabonye ko Chorelique ari umuntu wirebaho gusa akumva yihagije, Melancholic we ni umuntu ukunda kwitangira abandi kuburyo yakwemera akanapfa.

Aba melancholic bakunze kugira impano zitangaje ugasanga ni abahanzi, abanditsi b’ibitabo, bakunda gusoma, gushushanya, abavumbuzi, ndetse bivugwa ko bavamo abantu bihebeye Imana. Bakunda ibintu bikoze neza bidafite inenge. Ni abantu bakorwaho cyane mu marangamutima yabo.

Reka turebere hamwe imbaraga zabo

Ni abantu baba ari abizerwa nibo bantu bavamo incuti nziza cyane. Mu by’umwuka, ni abantu bihebera Imana kuko ntibibagora kuba bonyine, kwitindamo ndetse batekeereza ku kintu bakagitindaho kandi bahora bibaza niba babanye neza n’Imana. Kuko bitanga ntacyo bibatwara gusenga igihe kirekire, kandi biramworohera kwizera kuko we ntiyiyizera. Ni abantu batega amatwi (good listeners) kuko baha agaciro amarangamutima kandi n’iyo yaba abangamiwe yabokora kuko akunda kwitangira abandi.

Intege nke zabo

Ntibagira incuti nyinshi kuko bibagora kugira incuti bitewe n’uko bashidikanya kuruta ibindi. Kuko ari abantu bakorwaho cyane, ni abantu batinda kwibabarira, ntibajya bakira amakosa yabo kuko baba bashaka kuba nta nenge bityo iyo bakosheje ntibibabarira. Ni abantu b’imbere bitindaho ntibasohora amarangamutima, ibyo bituma bagwa mu mwijima w’agahinda gakabije (depression).Usanga ahahise habo harabafashe bugwate.

Muri Bibiliya bavuga ko Mose na Eliya bari aba melancholic. Wibuke Eliya yageze aho yisabira ko bamwica kuko aba ni abantu bagwa mu gahinda gakabije vuba kandi na Mose ni uko yari ameze. Ni abantu bashidikanya cyane kuburyo n’iyo umubwiye ngo uramukunda abishidikanyaho, washaka kumwegera akabishidikanyaho. Bagira ingorane yo kutamenya gufata umwanzuro vuba kuko baba bagishidikanya. Ntibiyizera niyo mpamvu baba bakeneye kugira abandi biyegamizaho kugira ngo bagire icyo bakora. Bakenera gukundwa kuko bagira intege nke zo kwiyizera.

Phlegmatic

Imbaraga zabo

Ni abantu badateza ibibazo mu muryango mugari, ni abantu usanga bacecetse mubyukuri ni abantu beza.Akora ibintu mu buryo bwisubiramo, niba avuze ngo ngera ku kazi saa mbili ngataha saa kumi ni ibyo. Ni abanyabwoba batinya kugaragaza amarangamutima yabo, inyuma ubona ntacyo bibabwiye ariko imbere amarangamutima yabo akorwaho.

Ni umuntu uzi gushima ibyakozwe neza, bazi kwishimira ibyiza byagezweho. Ntibavuga menshi, ubaye uvuga menshi bakureka ukisanzura. Ushaka kuyobora ubikora ntacyo bibatwaye. Ntibakunda amakimbirane. Icyo mwemeranijwe aragikora kandi neza.

Intege nke zabo

Ntacyo bica nta cyo bakiza, nta rwenya bagira n’iyo basubiyemo inkuru yavuzwe uba wumva ibishye. Ni abantu badafite imbaraga mu bijyanye na communication cyangwa ibiganiro. Ku bijyanye n’umutungo, ubona ubuzima ntacyo bubabwiye, akunda ibintu bidahinduka ntumusabe kwiyemeza cyangwa kwirengera ingaruka, ntibakunda ibintu bigoranye. Ntago bakunda kwiha intego ngo usange bafite inzozi bashaka kuzageraho. Ntabwo usanga benshi ari abakire kuko usanga badakunda guhindura akazi cyangwa ngo basabe ibirenze. Ni abanebwe.

Ku bijyanye n’igitsina usanga badashishikariye imibonano mpuzabitsina. Kubera ubwoba, ntibakunda gutera iya mbere ngo bakore ikintu ahubwo baritinya, iyo urebeye inyuma ntububona ariko imbere aba ari umunyabwoba. Ntibakunda gufata ibyemezo mu muryango no muburere bw’abana nta ruhare runini babigiramo. Mu by’umwuka ubona ntacyo bimubwiye kandi kuyobora biramugora.

Ku bijyanye n’imitere y’abantu twabonye Melancholic ni umuntu wahimba cg wavumbura ikintu, hanyuma umu cholelic yakiyobora, umusanguine yagikorera marketing (yakimenyekanisha kikagurwa) naho flegmatic yakigura.
Mubyukuri kuvuga ku miterere y’abantu bigamije kwimenya imbaraga ndetse n’intage nke zawe hanyuma ukamenya uko wakwitwara ku wo mwashakanye kugira ngo mubashe kubana mu mahoro. Iyo umaze kumenya imiterere y’uwo mubana biguha imbaraga zo kumenya uko umutwara ndetse no kwihanganira intege nke ze.

Source: Agakiza tv

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