Umugore: Isooko y’amahoro isi ikeneye

Amahoro ubundi ni igihe cy’umudendezo, gitekanye kandi kitarimo intambara nk’uko inkoranyamagambo ya Oxford ibisobanura. Iki kiba ari igihe abantu badahangayitse, abantu bafite ubwigenge n’umudendezo, ndetse n’imibanire hagati y’abantu n’abandi imeze neza.

Muri iki gihe, isi dutuyemo igaragara ko nta mahoro yuzuye ifite, kuko hari igihe bucya hakaba amahoro make cyane, ikindi gihe hakaba amahoro menshi. Muri make ntushobora kwizera uko ejo buzacya bimeze.

Habaho igihe usanga umuntu yibwira ko afite amahoro igihe yumva abanye neza n’abandi, abayeho yisanzuye mu muryango cyangwa mu gihugu n’ubwo yaba afite uko yiherera akaganya cyangwa akarira. Aya yitwa “Amahoro y’inyuma”. Hakabaho n’igihe usanga umuntu yuzuye umunezero mu mutima we n’ubwo ataba afite ibikenerwa mu buzima byose, aya nayo akitwa Amahoro yo mu mutima”.

Amahoro ntapfa kuboneka mu isi kuko nta ho acuruzwa, ndetse iyo abantu bakoresha imbaraga mu kuyashaka, akenshi bayabuza abandi cyangwa bakayabura bose. Ibihugu bikomeye ku isi bikoresho ingengo y’imari itagira ingano mu gushaka amahoro ariko akenshi ntibayabona ahubwo arushaho kubura.

N’ubwo bimeze bityo, amahoro akenewe na bose. N’urusoro ruri mu nda kugira ngo rubeho neza rukenera ko umubyeyi abaho afite amahoro. Iyo bitagenze bityo, uwo mwana ashobora kutabaho cyangwa akazabaho afite umutima ukomeretse.

Iyo babwiye umwana ngo ntashoboye, ni mubi, imiterere ye si myiza (inenge ku mubiri) cyangwa ngo ni mwiza cyane byose bimugiraho ingaruka. Ku rundi ruhande iyo utahawe agaciro ntugaha abandi iyo utahawe urukundo urarusabiriza. Urugero: Uburyo Abisiraheri barera abana babo kuva basamwe, babatoza Ijambo ry’Imana n’umucyo mwiza wo gukorera hamwe bityo usanga nta muntu ubaho yizirikana wenyine.

Bibiliya ivuga iki ku mahoro?

Igihe cyabayeho hari amahoro yuzuye mu isi ni igihe Adamu yari atarakora icyaha. Bahoraga mu busabane n’Imana, nta muruho, ibyaremwe bibubaha, bose bagendera muri gahunda bahawe n’Imana.

Kuva icyo gihe amahoro yagiye abura keretse abantu bake bagerageje gukiranukira Imana. Ubuhanuzi bwavuze kuri Yesu bwamugaragaje nk’Umwami w’Amahoro (Yesaya 9; Yesaya 61) ndetse n’indirimbo abamarayika baririmbiye abashumba bavuze ko icyubahiro gihabwa Imana amahoro akaba ku bo yishimira. Bigaragara ko ibanga ry’amahoro rihishe muri we gusa.

Yesu mu nyigisho ze n’ubuzima yabagaho, akenshi yagarukaga ku mahoro y’umutima kenshi, uwo ni na wo murage yasigiye intumwa ze kuko yababwiye ngo imitima yabo ntihagarare. Iyo wakiriye Yesu Kristo mu mutima wawe ni ho uba wakiriye amahoro Imana itanga kuko « Uwo ni we mahoro yacu… » (Abefeso 2:13-14).

Ibidukikike birayakeneye ngo bibeho neza

Umuntu akoze icyaha mu ngobyi ya Edeni amahoro yahise abura. Kugeza ubu kimwe mu bituma umuntu abura amahoro ni icyaha: Gushaka amahoro uri umunyabyaha akenshi ntibikunda kuko umutima nturya ruswa ahubwo uhora ukubwira ko uzarimbuka. Nta mahoro y’umunyabyaha niko Uwiteka avuga.

Amahoro ni umurage:

Yesu yasigiye itorero amahoro nka kimwe mu bintu bihenze kandi bazakenera mu buzima bwa buri munsi. Hari ibindi bintu yari kubaha bihenze ariko yahisemo kubaha amahoro. Hirya ya Kristo nta mahoro ahubwo mureke amahoro ya Kristo atwarire mu mitima yanyu (1 Tesalonike 3:15).

Umugore n’amahoro

Umugore nk’umwe mu bagiriwe ubuntu bwo guhabwa agakiza, agakizwa akaba n’umwe mu nkingi z’urugo (atanga ubuzima), z’igihugu n’itorero, afite uruhare runini mu gutanga amahoro, muri ibi byiciro byose.

Esiteri yumvise ikibazo cy’ubugambanyi bwari bwabakorewe ahita asenga iminsi 3, ajya kureba umwami ntiyahita avuga ikibazo cye ahubwo ategura ibirori, basangira n’umwanzi wabo. Yari azi kubaka amahoro.

Mariya ni we Imana yaciyemo abyara uzaba Umwami w’amahoro mu isi. Binyuze mu mugore, isi ishobora kugira amahoro kuko abagore bifitemo imbaraga zo kuyubaka mu muryango no mu gihugu. Iyo urebye abantu bashamikiye ku mugore usanga abashije gutanga amahoro yagera kuri benshi, uhereye umunsi asama, igihe amarana n’umwana utavuze abagize umuryango n’aho yirirwa mu buzima bwa buri munsi.

Ingo nyinshi ntizigira amahoro kubera ibikomere

Umukobwa aba yarabujijwe amahoro akiri mu nda, akavukira mu rugo rumeze rutyo rimwe agatekereza ko nagera mu rugo azaba abonye iwe aho kuruhukira ariko igitangaje ni uko bwa buzima yangaga ari bwo azisangamo akabuza amahoro abandi kuko atayigeze.

Akenshi mu rugo umugore yumva azabonera amahoro ku mugabo, umugabo nawe akaba ategereje ko azayabonera ku mugore. Burya birangira bose batayabonye kandi ikibabaje ni uko abana na bo baba bategereje ko bazayabaha bikaba uruhererekane rw’ibikomere.

Inkuru nziza ni uko Yesu afite ubushobozi bwo kudukiza ibikomere. Ikibazo ni kimwe: Ese iyo dufite ibikomere, tubyerekeza he? Burya abo dutegerejeho ubufasha bose dushobora kutabubabonaho, keretse kuri Yesu. Ibikomere by’amateka ni Kristo wenyine ubyomora bigakira.

Kugira ngo umugore yubake amahoro yakora iki?

Kugira ngo umugore abe isoko y’amahoro agomba kubanza guharanira kubana amahoro na Kristo, akamwakira kuko ari we mahoro yacu. Nta watanga icyo adafite. Mu gitabo cy’Imigani 14:11 haranditse ngo “Urugo rw’umunyabyaha ruzasenywa ariko ihema ry’umukiranutsi rizakomera”.

Uruhare rw’umugore mu kuzana Kristo mu rugo

Imana yahaye umugore ubutware. Icyo yashaka ko kiba mu rugo cyaba. Umugore ni umufasha w’umugabo, bityo akwiriye kudashigikira ikintu cyose cyahungabanya amahoro haba mu mutima, mu rugo cyangwa muri sosiyete.

Hari inkuru muri Bibiliya y’umugabo witwaga Nabari. Yari mubi ariko akagira umugore w’umunyabwenge witwa Abigayiri. Umunsi umwe yumvise ko amaraso agiye kumeneka ku bw’amakosa umugabo we yakoze, maze bimubuza amahoro, kuko byari guhungabanya we, urugo na sosiyete maze ahita akora ibishoboka abiburizamo. Izo ni zo mbaraga z’umugore mu kubaka amahoro (1 Samweli 25).
Doruka yafashije sosiyete ifite ikibazo bituma n’ivugabutumwa rikorwa neza (Ibyakozwe 9:36). Ivugabutumwa rya Yesu ryashigikiwe n’abagore bubaha Imana, Pawulo yafashijwe na ba Lydia bituma agera ku ntego yo kuzana abandi kuri Yesu.

Umugore agomba kwirinda kugira ngo abe umurinzi w’ amahoro
Kuba umugore w’umutima
Umugore w’umutima wese yubaka urugo, ariko umupfu we ubwe ararusenya. (Imigani 14:1)
Kumenya kuvuga ijambo mu gihe gikwiriye
Gusubizanya ineza guhosha uburakari, ariko ijambo ribabaza ribyutsa umujinya.(Imigani 15:1)
Kutemera ikivuzwe cyose (Gufuha kubi )
Umuswa yemera ikivuzwe cyose, ariko umunyamakenga yitegereza aho anyura.(Imigani 14:15)
Kutaba icyigenge
Umunyabwenge atinya ibibi ndetse akabihunga, ariko umupfapfa agenda ari icyigenge, akagira umutima udatinya. (Imigani 14:16)
Kutihutira kurakara
Uwihutira kurakara azakora iby’ubupfu, kandi uw’imigambi mibi baramwanga.(Imigani 14:17)
Kwirinda amazimwe
Umurimo wose utera inyungu, ariko amazimwe y’ururimi atera ubukene agatubya.(Imigani 14:23)
Ubupfapfa
Ikamba ry’abanyabwenge ni ubutunzi bwabo, ariko ubupfu bw’abapfapfa ni ubupfu gusa.(Imigani 14:24)
(Ubwiza bw’umukobwa bumugeza ibwami ariko imyitwarire ye ni yo igena igihe azamarayo )
Ibinyoma
Umuhamya w’ukuri akiza ubugingo bw’abantu, Ariko uvuga ibinyoma arashukana.(Imigani 14:25)
Kutubaha Imana
Kūbaha Uwiteka ni isōko y’ubugingo, bigatuma abantu batandukana n’imitego y’urupfu.(Imigani 14:26-27)
Ishyari ni ikimungu (canser)
Umutima utuje ni wo bugingo bw’umubiri, ariko ishyari ni nk’ikimungu kiri mu magufwa. (Imigani 14:30)
Gukiranirwa
Gukiranuka gushyira ubwoko hejuru, ariko ibyaha bikoza isoni amoko yose.( Imigani 14:34)
Gukora ibiteye isoni
Ineza y’umwami ayigirira umugaragu ukorana ubwenge, ariko umujinya we awugirira ukora ibiteye isoni.(Imigani 14:35)
 Mugire umwete wo kubana n’abantu bose amahoro n’uwo kwezwa, kuko utejejwe atazareba Umwami Imana.
Nifuje gusoza mbwira abagore ko bose bahagurukiye hamwe bakubaka amahoro Imana yabakoresha ibikomeye, umuryango ukagira amahoro, sosiyete ikabaho mu mahoro.
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