Uko wakwitwara mu bibazo by’inzitane mu muryango.

Ubusanzwe, umuntu wese anezezwa no kugira umuryango utekanye: ubasha kubona ibitunga abawugize, kwambara, kwiga, kwivuza ndetse no kuzigammira ejo hazaza. nyamara ibyo siko bihora bimeze ahubwo habaho igihe umuryango utewe nibibazo bitandukanye bisaba bene wo kubishakira ibisubizo
Ese ni iki ukora iyo mu muryango byahindutse?

Joanna aradusangiza ubuzima yanyuzemo.

Mu mwaka wa 2008 nashakanye n’umugabo w’umusirikare. Ibi bisobanuye ko nari mfite icyubahiro ndetse natembereraga aho nshaka. Buri rugendo najyagamo hari icyo nungukaga, inzu nziza yo kwishimiramo n’ishema ryo guhura nabantu benshi.
Nubwo byari bimeze bityo, mbasha kujya ku rusengero, mfite itsinda ryiza dusengana, abana bajya mu irerero (crèche), naje kugera aho birahinduka ubwigunge buraza. Amafaranga arashira. Umubabaro waraje ushinga imizi ndakubitika, incuti zinshiraho,umutima wanjye ucika intege kuko ubuzima bwari buhindutse.

Umunsi umwe naje gutekekereza kuri ubu buzima ndimo, nyuma nibuka icyo Dawidi yavuze muri Zaburi 27:4

“Icyo nsaba uwiteka ni kimwe nicyo nzajya nshaka, ni ukuba mu nzu y’Uwiteka iminsi yose nkiriho, nkareba ubwiza bw’Uwiteka, nkitegereza urusengero rwe."
Mbega ukuntu aya magambo ari meza! Iyo usomye zaburi ya 27 yose, ubona ko Dawidi yizeraga Imana ko igomba kumukiza mu gihe abanzi bamuhagurukiye. Yari afitiye Imana icyizere. Ndahamya ko yabonaga abamurwanya ari benshi ku rwego rwo .(reba 27:2,3,12)

Ariko ikintu twavuga muri ibi bibazo Dawidi yari arimo, yari afite ishyaka ryo gushaka Imana. Yashakaga kumva ijwi ry’Imana. Yashakaga gutegereza Imana. Akaguma hafi yayo.

None rero iyo nza kuba mu cyimbo cya Dawidi, nari kuba mpangayitse, nari kuba nibaza uburyo nacika abagizi ba nabi bankurikiye. Nari guhamagara incuti zanjye zikamfasha. Kugeza ubu ntangiye kumva impamvu Dawidi yanditse aya magambo.
Joanna yakomeje avuga ati: “Nubwo ntafite abanzi bagaragara banyiruka inyuma nk’uko Dawidi byari bimumereye, abanzi banjye ni abo mubitekerezo. Ngaya amazina yabo: guhangayika no kwigunga. Aba banzi banjye, bashaka gufata inzu yanjye(umutima) bakayihindura iyabo.”

Bityo rero ndakomeye nka Dawidi, sinshidikanya koImana irinda umutima wanye na roho abanzi bankurikiye. Uku niko kuri kunyemeza ko ubuzima bwo mw’isi buhinduka, bigenze bityo rero hari icyakorwa. Wasenga iri sengesho.

Mana yacu,uri mwiza, uri uwo kwizerwa. Ngushimiye ko wemeye ko nza mu nzu yawe kugirango mparuhukire, reka ubwiza bwawe bungaragarire Data. Mbabarira aho nibagiwe kugushaka mbere y’ibindi byose. Nshoboza kukumenya uwo uriwe no gusobanukirwa imigambi myiza ufite ku buzima bwanjye. Ndagukunda kuruta abandi bose. Amen.

Wakwibaza ngo kubana n’Imana ni gute? Ni ukurwana intambara yo kuyegera no kuba hafi yayo. Kuko yo ubwayo Iravuga iti: (nyizera, ndumva! Kandi ndasubiza)
Twanzuye tuvuga ko mu gihe duhuye n’ibibazo mu muryango, ibibazo by’ubuzima, tujye dutera intambwe yo kwegera Imana ni incuti yacu y’inkoramutima kandi iyaduhaye yesu akemera kudupfira urupfu rubi ku musaraba, ntiyabura kuduha ibyo dukeneye byose.
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