Iterambere ryiza ry’igihugu rishingiye ku muryango

Igiti kigira ibice byinshi birimo imizi, uruti, amashami, amababi ndetse n’imbuto kuri bumwe mu bwoko bw’ibiti. Imizi ni yo iha ubuzima ibindi bice, bivuze ko iyo imizi ibonye ibiyitunga bihagije, ubibwirwa n’uko amashami n’amababi n’imbuto byose bimeze neza.

Igihugu na cyo kigira imizi myinshi gihagazeho. Muri iyi nkuru turavuga ku muzi umwe witwa “umuryango”. Kugira ngo igihugu gikomere ni uko umuryango uba wubatse neza. Hari abarebera gukomera kw’igihugu mu bikorwa remezo. Ibyo ni byiza, ariko kugira ngo wubake igisekuru gikomeye, bisaba ko wita ku muryango kandi ibyo birakorwa mu gihugu cyacu. Urubyiruko rwitabwaho n’ibindi byiciro bidasigaye inyuma, gusa inzira iracyari ndende.

Kugira ngo igiti kirusheho kuba cyiza wongeramo ifumbire ukanareba ko kibona amazi ahagije, ukabagara niba aho kiri hari ibyonnyi cyangwa udukoko twacyangiza, hanyuma ugatera imiti ubundi ukazitira kugira ngo uzagere ku musaruro wifuza.
Mu muryango ni ho umuntu abonera urukundo, agaciro, amahoro, kwigirira icyizere, kubaho udafite ubwoba bw’ejo hazaza, gukorana umurava, kuba intwari, kugira umutima wagutse ukwirwamo abandi, kunyurwa n’ibyo ufite, kwihanganira ibibazo, kwishakamo ibisubizo, imibanire yawe n’abandi. Aho ni ho utorezwa kuzavamo umugabo/gore kugira ngo nawe abazagukomokaho uzabahe icyo wahawe.
Muri iki gihe mu miryango myinshi ku isi cyane cyane mu bihugu biteye imbere harimo ibibazo bikomeye birimo gutandukana kw’abashakanye ku kigero kiri hejuru cyane, ubutinganyi, kwiyahura, ibiyobyabwenge, ubusinzi, agahinda gakabije, ihungabana, kwikunda, ihohotera, ku buryo nta wabura kugira impungenge ko mu myaka iri imbere imiryango myinshi izaba ifite ibibazo bikomeye ku isi.

Mu gihugu cyacu ntabwo twavuga ko bikabije ugereranyije n’ahandi ku isi, kuko imiryango myinshi igifite indangagaciro ziva mu muco Nyarwanda ariko na ho si shyashya. Birasaba gushyira umwete mu kurinda umuryango kuko iyo utembereye imihanda ya Kigali mu masaha y’ijoro ubona urubyiruko rwasinze n’abicuruza. Mu bigo ngororamuco hari umubare munini w’urubyiruko kubera imyitwarire mibi itandukanye. Mu miryango harimo ihohotera rishingiye ku mutungo, gutandukana kwa hato na hato kw’abashakanye, ababyara inda zidateganyijwe n’ibindi. Ibyo byose byerekana ko hadafashwe ingamba zikomeye twazisanga umuryango ufite ikibazo gikomeye.

Kurarikira ibyo udafitiye ubushobozi

Hari abantu bamwe bitwara ukuntu ku buryo utamenya niba ari abazungu cyangwa abirabura. Gusirimuka ntibivuze gutakaza umuco. Hari urubyiruko rwifuza kubaho mu buzima buhenze ukabona ko yifuza kubaho ubuzima atabasha kwigondera. Biratangaje ukuntu umwana muto utarasoza amashuri yisumbuye ararikira terefone igura ibihumbi magana atatu (300.000 frw) ngo kubera ko yayibonanye umwana wa runaka kandi azi neza ko iwabo badafite ubushobozi bwo kuyigura. Aha simvuze imyambaro igezweho n’ibindi bigenda byaduka.

Iryo rari rirenze ni ryo ritwara abana mu bishuko bitandukanye, tutirengagije n’abagabo bakuru babishukisha abana bagamije kwinezeza ejo bakabatera inda cyangwa bakabanduza indwara zidakira. Abana bacu bakwiriye kwigishwa ko bakwiriye gukora cyane kugira ngo bazagere ku byiza byinshi ariko iteka iyo ushaka kubona ibyiza utabiruhiye, burya ubigeraho mu buryo bubi.

Amakimbirane yo mu miryango

Ikindi kibazo gikomeye ni ibibazo biri mu miryango. Nkunda gufata umwanya nkajya gushaka abana bo mu muhanda tukaganira nkababaza impamvu yabateye gufata umwanzuro wo kuva mu muryango bakaba mu muhanda. Abenshi bahuriza ko icyatumye bajya mu muhanda ari amakimbirane ari iwabo. Hari abavuka agasanga iwabo hahora imirwano, nta rukundo, amahoro, adahabwa agaciro cyangwa agakura atazi se kubera ko yavutse muri bwa buryo abana bavuka badateganyijwe.

Hari abataragiye mu muhanda ariko bahisemo kwiyahuza ibiyobyabwenge, inzoga zikaze n’ibindi, kandi kugira ngo babone amafaranga yo gukoresha ibyo, bamwe bahitamo kwiba.

Ibikomere

Abantu benshi bafite amateka yuzuye ibikomere. Ugasanga abayeho ataragize amahirwe yo kubona uwo babiganira kandi mu busanzwe nta muntu utanga icyo atahawe.

Dukore iki ngo turamire umuryango?

Igihugu gikora ibishoboka ngo abenegihugu babeho neza kandi mu nzego zose zigize igihugu ariko kubaka umuryango bikwiriye guhagurukirwa na buri wese, akabigira ibye. Baca umugani ngo “ikinyoni kinini ukibona aho urinda”. Nta muntu uyobewe ibibazo biri iwe cyangwa mu baturanyi, bityo dukwiriye kumva ko ibyo bibazo bitureba.

Guhinduka kwiza ni uguhinduka wowe ubwawe. Buri wese ashyize imbaraga mu guhinduka no guhindura abamwegereye twazasanga igihugu cyose cyahindutse, imiryango yubatse neza.

Ahandi hashakirwa umuti ni uko abanyamadini bakwiriye kubigira ikibazo cya bo. Burya abantu biyumvamo abanyamadini kuko iyo babahamagaye barabitaba ariko igitangaje ni uko umubare w’amadini n’amatorero wiyongera buri gihe ariko ibibazo biri muri sosiyete ntibigabanuke. Ese ubwo ikibashishikaje ni uguhindura imitima y’abantu? Ese ingo zitandukana, abasengera muri ayo madini n’amatorero ntibaba barimo? Nkurikije uburyo abayoboke b’amadini bumvira abashumba b abo, aba bashyizwemo umwete, impinduka ntizatinda kwigaragaza. Buri munsi abashumba basaba abakirisitu babo inkunga zo gukora ibikorwa binyuranye, kandi bakayatanga batazuyaje, ubwo rero uko kumvirwa gukwiriye kubyazwa umusaruro.

Umwanzuro

Ejo hazaza h’igihugu, iterambere n’ibindi byiza tuzabigeraho mu buryo burambye nidushyira imbaraga mu kubaka umuryango, bityo buri wese yumve ko niba dushaka igisekuru kizakurikiraho kizima dukwiye gushyira imbaraga mu kubaka umuryango.
Abayahudi bafite umuryango wubatse neza, kandi ntibivuze ko batanyuze mu bibazo. Ahubwo bagize ibibazo byinshi kuruta ibihugu byinshi ku isi kuko bamaze imyaka irenga igihumbi na magana inani na mirongo irindwi baratakaje igihugu, baratataniye ku isi hose. Bakorewe jenoside n’ibindi bibazo n’ingaruka nyinshi zayikurikiye ariko uko bubatse umuryango byabahesheje kugumana umwimerere. Igitangaje nyuma y’ibibazo bikomeye banyuzemo, bagarutse bakivuga ururimi rwabo, bakiri Abayuda batavanze, bibuka imipaka yabo. Uyu munsi ni abakire bakomeye ku isi, bafite abanyabwenge bakomeye ku rwego rw’isi. Nyuma y’imyaka 71 gusa, bamaze kuba igihugu cy’igihangange ku isi, ibi babikesha umuryango wubatse neza.

Harabura iki ngo twubake umuryango mwiza?

Imana yaduhaye ibintu byose ngo twubake umuryango. Dufite abayobozi beza b’igihugu badukangurira kugira umuryango muzima, badashyigikira ivangura iryo ari ryo ryose, dufite uburenganzira bungana ku bagore n’abagabo, dufite Imana tukagira n’ijambo rya yo rituyobora mu nzira dukwiriye kunyuramo, dufite umutekano mu gihugu. None twakwibaza, harabura iki?

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