Dore inama zafasha umubyeyi w’umugore mu gutanga ubuerere bwiza ku bana be.

ZABURI 127: 3
Dore abana ni umwandu uturuka k’Uwiteka, Imbuto z’inda ni zo ngororano atanga.
Iyo Imana iguhaye umwana, ni impano iba ihaye wowe ubwawe, umuryamngo, itorero, igihugu ndetse n’isi muri rusange, niyo mpamvu ari byiza kwiga uko wabasha gutanga uburere bwiza, kuko iyo urera neza, uba uri gukora umurimo w’Imana neza.

Muri iyi minsi, hagenda habaho impinduka zitandukanye, mu bice bitandukanye byubatse ubuzima, haba mu burezi, mu bukungu, mu iterambere n’ibindi, mu burezi rero ni igice kiba gikwiye kwitabwaho cyane, kuko nkuko bivugwa ko umwana apfa mu iterura, uburere iyo butabaye bwiza ndetse ngo bunatangwe neza, biragoye ko umwana yazavamo umuntu w’umumaro, haba ku muryango, ku itorero, ku gihugu ndetse no ku isi muri rusange.

Kugira ngo umubyeyi atange uburere bwiza rero hari ibyo aba agomba kwitaho, akaba ari nayo mpamvu, muri iyi nyandiko, twabateguriye inama zigera ku munani(8 ), zagufasha kurera cyangwa gutanga uburere bwiza ku bana urera.
Ijambo ry’Imana rivuga ko abana ari impano itangwa n’ Imana, umuntu ayihabwa, ntaruhare yabigizemo, ahubwo ayihabwa ku bw’ubuntu bwayo gusa ( ZABURI 127:3), iyo Imana iguhaye umwana, iba iguhaye impano, iyo utayifashe neza, ntibinezeza Imana , ntibinayihesha icyubahiro.niyo mpamvu rero, babyeyi mukwiriye kujya murera abana, Imana yabahaye mu buryo butuma Data wo mu ijuru anezerwa ndetse icyubahiro cye, kikamugarukira.

1.Shyigikira ibiterezo by’umwana

Ibi wabitangirira mu kumva umwana , mu gihe ubona ko umwana agenda akura, nubwo aba atekereza ibitandukanye cyane n’ibyo wowe waba utekereza nk’umubyeyi, si byiza gusenya no kunenga ibitekerezo bye iteka, si byiza kandi gufatira umwana imyanzuro yose, mureke atekereze, kandi ushyigikire ibitekerezo bye, nibyo wabona ataribyo nk’umubyeyi, si byiza kubipfobya, ahubwo mufashe mubibyazemo ibyiza kurutaho, ibi bizamufasha kwigirira ikizere ndetse no gukura mu miterereze.

2.Baho wihangana

Hari ubwo biba bigoye, kwihangana kenshi iyo abana bakoze ibintu bibi, ariko umubyeyi mwiza, arihangana, agatuza ndetse akabasha gusobanurira abana ibidakwiye bakoze, ndetse no kubereka uko bari kubikora bikaba byiza, ibi bisaba kubikorana ubugwaneza, kugira ngo bibashe gutanga umusaruro mwiza.

3.Menya ibishishikaza abana urera

Ni byiza kumenya ibishishikaza abana urera, ndetse no kubibashyigikiramo mu gihe ubona ko bitica umubiri cyangwa ubugingo, itoze ku menya imyitwarire bagira iyo bababaye ndetse n’iyo bishimye, witinya kubaza abana ibibazo mu gihe ubona batishimye, bizagufasha kumenya ibitagenze neza ndetse umenye n’uko wagenzura(Management), umubabaro wabo ndetse n’ibyishimo byabo, gusa ni byiza cyane kureka abana bakagusanga bakuganiriza ku bitababere byiza, aho kugirango ubahatire kukubwira, ibitabagendekeye neza.

4. Shyiraho amabwiriza, ndetse n’imipaka abo urera batagomba kurenga

Iyo abana urera ari bato, ni byiza kubashyiriraho amabwiriza abagenga ndetse ukabamenyesha nibyo bagomba kwitwararika, bibafasha no mu gihe waba utari hafi yabo, ni ingenzi kumenya aho abana baherereye ndetse n’abantu bari kumwe, ndetse n’ibyo bari gukora, bizagufasha kumenya neza niba umurongo wabashyiriyeho uri gukurikizwa neza, aha bisaba kwitonda, kuko uba ugomba kureka abana ukabaha umudendezo, ukabareka bakibwiriza gushyira mu bikorwa wamurongo wabashyiriyeho, aho kubasunira mu kwitwararika ya mabwiriza wabashyiriyeho.

5.Ubaha abana bawe

Inzira nziza yakugeza ku kubahwa ni ukubaha abandi, uko wubaha abandi bantu, nk’abashyitsi n’abandi, ba ariko wubaha n’abana urera bavugishe mu kinyabupfura, ubaha ibitekerezo byabo, kandi witoze guceceka mu gihe bari kuvuga, mu buryo bwo kububaha,ibi bizabafasha mu buzima bwabo babeho bakwishimiye, bakubaha ndetse binaborohere kubaha abandi.

6. Wigerageza kwigira mwiza, imbere yabo urera

Kurwana intamabara yo kugaragaza ko ukora ibintu byose neza, bishobora kugutera gukora amakosa agoranye kuyakosora, gerageza kuba uwo uriwe n’igihe uri kumwe nabo urera, ntube umuntu uhindagurika bitewe naho ageze, bizagufasha wowe ubwawe, ndetse binafashe abo urera bakure ari abantu badahindagurika.

7.Gerageza kumva abo urera

Kenshi biroroha kwibwira ko, uzi byinshi ku bana urera, ariko kwiga kubatega amatwi no kubumva, ni byiza kuko kenshi iyo abana, bazanye ibibazo imbere y’umubyeyi, rimwe na rimwe ababyeyi bahita bashaka kwihutira kubaha ibisubizo, hakaba nubwo banahutiraho, gerageza kwiga kumva ibibazo by’abana urera, ubanze utuze ubiterezeho neza,ubone gushaka igisubizo, ibi bizafasha abana, babone ko ubatega amatwi, banakwigireho gufata imyanzuro, badahubutse.

8. Rerana ubugwaneza, witonda mu gutanga ibihano

Abana baba bifuza kwerekwa ko bishimiwe n’ababazengurutse bose, kwishimirwa ni ikimenyetso cy’urukundo, kubereka ko ibyabo byifuzo ubigira ibyawe bifasha abana kubaho banezerewe, binorohereze wowe ubarera mu kubatoza ikinyabupfura, mu gihe habayeho amakosa, itonde mu gutanga ibihano, kuko ushobora guhana umwana mu buryo bubi, ntabe akikubona nk’umubyeyi mwiza.

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