Abakobwa bagiriwe inama yuko bakira ibikomere bishobora gusenya urugo

Kuri uyu wa gatandatu, tariki 21 Mata 2018, ku biro by’Umuryango wo Gushaka no Gukiza Icyazimiye (SSHM) urubyiruko rw’abakobwa rwongeye kuganirizwa ku bikomere badakwiye kujyana mu ngo kugirango bazabashe kubaka ingo nziza zitanga ubuzima.

Umuyobozi w’Umuryango wo Gushaka no Gukiza Icyazimiye, Pasiteri Habyarimana Desire, yabwiye uru rubyiruko ko kugirango umuntu agire urugo rwiza, hari ibikomere adakwiye kwinjirana mu rugo kugirango bitazaba intandaro yo gusenyuka kwarwo.
Yabasobanuriye ko hari ibintu bitera umutima gukomereka birimo igihombo (kubura ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose), agahinda cyangwa umubabaro byagumyeho, gukomereka ukagerageza kubirenzaho , n’ibindi. Pasiteri Desire yabibukijeko ubusanzwe mu muteguro w’ Imana yashyizeho umuryango nk’ ahantu hakwiye kuba urukundo, ubuzima bwiza… , umuntu akabana neza na sosiyete n’ibyaremwe ariko aha hose akaba ariho abantu basigaye bakomerekera aho kuhabona ubuzima n’umunezero.

Yabibukije ko kuva umuntu yacumura ingaruka yabaye gukomereka, kandi ahaba icyaha haba ibikomere. Yababwiyeko ingaruka zo gukomereka harimo ihungabana, kugira imyitwarire mibi, gusara, gufata ibyemezo bikaze, gucira abandi urubanza, kwironda,…Yababwiyeko ibikomere bitakize bigira ingaruka nyinshi harimo gukomeretsa (umutima ubabaye urakomeretsa), kwihorera, kugambanirana, kubeshyerana, kwiyahura,…(Yeremiya14:6, 8:11)
“Uruguma rw’abantu banjye barwomoye baruca hejuru bavuga bati ‘Ni amahoro, ni amahoro’, ariko rero nta mahoro ariho.”(Yeremiya 14:6; 8:11)
Yababwiyeko inzira yonyine yo gukira ari ukwemera akababaro (ibyakubayeho) ugatangira ubundi buzima, kuvuga ibyakubayeho, gufata umwanya ukarira, no kujyana byose ku musaraba.

Yagize ati: “ Ku musaraba twahabonye ingurane. Yesu ni we wenyine ukiza imvune zo mu mutima, akikorera ibyaha byacu, agahoza abarira, agakingurira abari mu nzu y’imbohe, agatanga amavuta yo kunezerwa mu cyimbo cy’ubwirabure n’umwambaro w’ibyishimo mu cyimbo cy’umutima wihebye.”
Gatesi Vestine nk’ umubyeyi , yabwiye uru rubyiruko ko bakwiye kujyana ibyabakomerekeje ku musaraba, ubundi bakazinjira mu rugo ari abagore beza, kuko umugore mwiza atanga ubuzima , akaba ari we ufite ubushobozi bwo gutuma umuryango uhorana ibyishimo n’umunezero cyangwa ukabibura.

Umwe mu bitabiriye iri huriro utarashatse ko tumuvuga amazina , yashimiye ababyeyi babitaho bakabategurira aya mahugurwa, avugako buri wese agira ibyamukomerekeje, ariko ko bagomba kubijyana ku musaraba bagakira. Yongeyeho ko inama bagiriwe ari ingirakamaro zizabafasha gutegura hakiri kare urugo rwiza ruzashimwa n’Imana n’abantu.

Iri huriro ryari rifite intego igira iti “Ibikomere umukobwa adakwiye kujyana mu rugo “ Rikaba ryaritabiriwe n’abakobwa baturutse mu matorero atandukanye bari mu kigero cyo kuva ku myaka 18 kuzamura, bakazakomeza guhabwa amahugurwa atandukanye kugirango bazajye mu ngo zabo byibura hari ubumenyi bw’ibanze bafite.

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