Wari uzi ko umwana muto niyo yaba asinziye aba yumva ababyeyi be iyo bari gutongana ?

Ngo impinja zumva neza ababyeyi bazo nubwo zaba zisinziriye cyane cyane iyo bari mu ntonganya. Igikomeye ni uko ababyeyi iyo bari gutongana bigira ingaruka zitari nziza na gato ku buzima bwazo bwo mu mutwe.

Abantu benshi bakunze gutekereza ko kuba umwana atarakura ngo amenye ubwenge bagomba kwivugira cyangwa bagakora ibyo bashatse. Ariko baba bibeshya cyane kuko birengagiza ko niyo akiri mu nda ataravuka hari aho agera akaba ashobora kumva urusaku ruri hanze, umuziki n, ibindi ari byo bita mu cyongereza “Sensibility.”

Ubushakashatsi dukesha “Daily mai”l bwakozwe n’impuguke z’abanyamerika ku buzima bwo mu mutwe bw’umwana, buremeza ko burya ubwonko bw’uruhinja bufite ubushobozi bwo kumva intonganya yemwe n’iyo asinziriye. Rero ngo kuba ubwonko bw’umwana muto buba bworoshye mu kuba bwakwigana ibikorwa byinshi yumva cyangwa abona, uku gutongana kw’ababyeyi kumugiraho ingaruka mbi mu mikurire ye, akazakura yumva afite urusobe rw’ibibazo ari byo benshi bita “Stress”.

Aba bashakashatsi bo muri kaminuza ya Oregon bakoresheje MRI Scans, uburyo bukoreshwa kugira ngo harebwe uko ubwonko bw’umuntu buri gukora. Hafashwe abana bakiri bato 20 basinziriye. Kubera ko ubu buryo twasobanuye bunapima imikorere y’ubwonko niyo yaba asinziriye,aba bana bashyizwe muri ibi byuma basinziriye. Byaje kugaragara ko umwana niyo yaba asinziriye aba yumva amajwi y’abamuvugira iruhande cyane ayo ayo majwi ari intonganya, ibitutsi n’ibindi.

Ngo bitewe n’uko ubwonko bwabo buba bucyoroshye (malleability), bituma bo iyo basinziriye baba bumva amagambo avuganwe uburakari bukabije, buciriritse cyangwa avuganwe ibyishimo n’adafite aho abogamiye. Alice Graham , umudogiteri umwe mubakoze iyonyigo, aravuga ati: “twari tugamije kumenya inkomoko ya stress abana bagira bakiri bato batarahura n’ibintu byinshi mu buzima niba yaba ifitanye isano n’imikorere y’ubwonko bwabo.”

Nyuma y’ubu bushakashatsi hemejwe ko, abana baturuka mu ngo zigira amakimbirane n’intonganya bakunze kurwara indwara ya stress, naho abaturuka mu ngo zitagira intonganya za buri gihe bakagira amahirwe yo kudafatwa n’iyi ndwara.

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Didier NIYOMUKIZA / UMUGANGA.com