Urubyiruko rugize abakunzi b’Agakiza.org rwasobanuriwe ibintu 5 bizatuma bubaka ingo nziza

Urubyiruko rugize umuryango mugari w’abakunzi b’Agakiza.org basobanuriwe ibintu bitanu bizabafasha kubaka ingo nziza. Ibi bakaba barabisobanuriwe mu rugaga rw’urubyiruko kuri iki cyumweru tariki 21 Kanama 2016, igikorwa cyabereye kuri Salle ya Amani iherereye Kicukiro.

Dr Byiringiro Samuel usanzwe ari umuyobozi mukuru w’umuryango Mwana Ukundwa ( Association Mwana Ukundwa) akaba ari nawe wari umwigisha w’iri huriro ry’uruyiruko yatanze impuguro zitandukanye yifashishije intego yagiraga iti ‘’ Twakora iki nk’urubyiruko rukijijwe tukazubaka ingo nziza?’’


Dr Byiringiro Samuel

Mu mwanya w’ijambo ry’Imana yabwiye urubyiruko rwitabiriye iri huriro ko hari ibintu bitanu by’ingenzi bikwiye kwitabwaho niba umuntu ashaka kubaka urugo rwiza:

1. Gutekereza ku cyo ugiye gukora, kubaka urugo mu bitekerezo. Kuri iyi ngingo Samuel yabwiye urubyiruko ko bibabaje kubona umuntu amara igihe cyose cy’ubuzima bwe ategura ubukwe aho gutegura urugo. Aha icyo yita urugo ni umunsi nyir’izina w’ibirori ( wedding or ceremony) mu gihe umuntu akwiye gutekereza cyane kuri Marriage ( Urugo) we agererabya n’ubuzima.

Ngo iyo umuntu atinze cyane ku bukwe bituma ashobora kwimanika kubera gutanga ibyo afite byose yabitanze mu birori, bikazarangira urugo rumunaniye kuko rwo atarutekerezaho. Ati ‘’rubyiruko mukwiye gutinda cyane ku rugo aho gutinda ku bukwe’’

2. Kubanza kuba umugabo kuruta kuba umuhungu cyangwa kuba umugore kuruta kuba umukobwa. Kuri iyi ngingo yabwiye urubyiruko ko mbere yo guhitamo uwo muzarwubakana ukwiye kubanza kureba niba yaramaze kwaguka kugeza ku rwego rwo guhinduka umufasha ( yaba umugabo cyangwa umugore).

3. Ukwiye kuba uwo uri we ( Be who you are). Kuri iyi ngingo Samuel yashishikarije urubyiruko rukijijwe kutubakira ingo zabo ku kinyoma kubera kutiyakira uko bari. Kutaba uwo uri we niyo bituma umuntu ashobora gutegura ubukwe bwa miliyoni 10 bwarangira kubaka urugo bikazamunanira kuko yananiwe kwakira urwego rwe. Aha yashishikarizaga uruyiruko kwemera gukora ibintu bijyanye n’ubushobozi bwabo Imana ikazabashyigikira mu rugo rwabo.
Ati ‘’nujya umara kwandika uwo wifuza n’ibimuranga nawe ujye uhindura paji wandike uwo uri we n’ibikuranga.’’

4. Kwemera gutandukana n’imwe mico yawe bwite, yaba iyo mu miryango cyangwa ibindi wabayemo kugira ngo bitazaba intandaro yo gutandukana n’uwo muzabana. Ati ‘’harubwo usanga iwanyu mwarazindukaga mugenda mutavuze aho mugiye, uwo mubana abivuga mbere y’iminota 15 atarava mu rugo.’’

Iyo ugiye kubaka urugo ukwiye kwemera gusiga, kurekura bene utwo duco iwanyu mwabayemo kuko mutitonze twatuma mutandukana. Kuri iyi ngingo ariko na none ni byiza ko abantu baba baziranye kuko nta rugo rutabamo kwihanganirana kandi ntabwo uwo muba mugiye kubana ari Malayika.

5. Ukwiye kuba ufite amakuru yizewe ko uwo mugiye kubana avuye ku Mana. Nubwo iyi ngingo yabaye iyo kugibwaho impaka ariko Dr Byiringiro Samuel, Madame we, Pastor Desire na Madame ndetse na Rutabingwa D’Amour bose bari bagize itsinda ryasubizaga ibibazo by’urubyiruko bemeza ko kubana n’umuntu utavuye ku Mana ari ikibazo gikomeye. Aba bose bemeranye ko iyo umuntu abana n’Imana imuvugisha nka bumwe mu buryo yakumenyeshamo uwo muzabana, nubwo habaho n’izindi nzira yavuganamo nawe ariko ukemeza neza ko uwo muzabana avuye kuri yo.

Itsinda ryasubizaga ibibazo by’urubyiruko

Abatangaga ibiganiro bose bemeza ko hari ibintu umuntu ashakisha mu buzima akabibona ariko hari n’ibyo Imana yanzuyeko ari yo izajya ibitanga gusa harimo n’umufasha, kuko urugo rwiza ari urwubatswe n’Imana.


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Ushobora kubona umugore cyangwa umugabo uhawe n’imiryango, inshuti, ibifatika n’ibindi bitandukanye ariko umunyamahirwe mu buzima ni uwakubaka urugo yizeye ko uwo bagiye kubana ari Imana yamumuhaye.


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