Umuryango mwiza ni igenamigambi ry’Imana (Igice 1)

Umuryango uba mwiza iyo buri wese mu bawugize ahagaze mu mwanya Imana yamugeneye. Ibyo ntibiterwa n’ubutunzi, amafaranga, amashuri, uburanga, kwamamara no kuratwa ; ahubwo ni abantu bashyize hamwe bazirikanishijwe umunyururu w’urukundo, bubaha Imana n’amahame yayo, kuruta ikindi kintu cyose. Mu igenamigambi ry’Imana, yagennye ko habaho umugabo n’umugore, yo ibona ko umuntu ataremewe kuba wenyine, ahubwo ni ishyirahamwe rishinzwe
kumarana irungu, rikorera hamwe kandi rifite intego imwe. Ni abantu bunzwe no kumvikana. Iri ni ryo buye ry’urufatiro Imana yashinze muri urwo rugo rushya muri Edeni. Kubana neza kwa bombi, ni ryo remezo ry’ihererekanyamurage ryiza ry’abazabakomokaho. Umuryango mwiza ukenewe ni nk’uwo Imana yashyize muri Edeni.

Uruhare rwa buri wese mu muryango

Umuryango abamalayika bishimira kubamo ni uwo Imana ifitemo ubutegetsi bw’ikirenga, aho abana bigishirizwa kubaha iyobokamana. Bibilya isaba abashakanye kubana akaramata ariko na none tumenyeko satani ahora arekereje ngo asenye ingo ni yo mpamvu abagize umuryango bakwiye guhora bari maso basenga kandi bubahana.

Umugabo nk’umutware w’urugo rwe, ni izihe nshingano zakaranze umugabo mwiza?

Akamaro k’umugabo mwiza gatangirira mu muryango we, bigakomereza mu baturanyi n’abo bakorana no mu itorero.

Aba inyangamugayo muri byose, mu kuvuga, mu kwirinda guhemuka.
Atanga inama zubaka maze agahuza abashyamiranye.
Mu itorero ntagira ipfunwe, kuko ibyo yigisha biba bifite ireme muri we no mu muryango we.

Abagabo nk’abo isi ibabonye ni byo byagabanya ruswa, akarengane, igitugu no kwikubira bimaze kumunga ibihugu n’imiryango hafi ya yose (Zekariya 8:23 ; 2 Ngoma 9:5-8 ; Yobu 29:11-16 ; Yobu 31:16-23).

Umuntu ashobora kuba adafite uburanga ariko iyo ashimirwa kuba umunyakuri n’umukiranutsi, bizamutera kwiringirwa n’abamukikije.

Henoki aho kwihunza abantu no kwigunga yiyumvishaga ko afite inshingano mu baturanyi, mu muryango we, kimwe no hanze yawo, nk’umugabo, aho ari ho hose n’iminsi yose yariho nk’umugaragu w’Imana.

Satani yaturutse impande zose asenya ubumwe bw’umuryango, n’ubwo bizwi na bake.
Ababi b’iki gihe reka tubahere ku bagabo. Umugabo mubi tuvuga, ntiduhereye ku buranga n’ibindi abantu bareberaho ubwiza bw’inyuma. Ahubwo dore ibimuranga :

Urukundo aruheruka mu irambagiza
Agandira umutima uhana w’umugore we
Ntiyemera kwakira ibyifuzo by’umugore n’abana
Afata umugore we nk’igikoresho
Ntazi ibikwiriye gukorerwa abana be
Akoresha urutoto n’iterabwoba ku muryango we
Ubusambo butuma yiha akima umuryango n’abavandimwe
Bene abo ntibubaka, barasenya.

Umugabo wese utubaha Imana iyi niyo mico imuranga, anyuze mu byaha . inshingano yo kurera no kugabura bakayiharira abagore babo n’imiryango y’abagiraneza. Umwana akaba mu ndangamuntu gusa, ntabe ku mutima wa se. Abagabo bihakana abo babyaye, maze abana babo bakicwa n’agahinda ko kubura aho babarizwa, bameze nka Nabali wo muri Bibiliya (1 Samweli 25 :3, 25).

Bene abo bagira amazu, abagore n’abana babo bakarara mu baturanyi.
Bagira imodoka, abagore n’abana bakagenza amaguru.
Barya uturyoshye, bagashira inyota, abana n’abagore babo babeshejweho no guhangayika.

Akaga isi ya none ifite, ni ukubona uwananiwe urwe ashingwa kuyobora ikigo, umushinga, ingabo, imiryango, amashyirahamwe n’amadini. Utazi kwisuzuma ngo yimenyeho amafuti, ntashobora guca imanza neza no kunga abandi bantu. Usesagura utwe, ntiyazigamira igihugu.

Ikibabaje, ni uko ingeso mbi ziboneka mu bapagani ziboneka no mu biyita abakristo.

Umugore mwiza

Burya umugore ni we rufunguzo rw’umubano, mu bavandimwe n’abaturanyi. N’ubwo umugabo yagira ubuntu n’urugwiro, n’ubwo yamwenyurira abandi no kugerageza kwakira, ntacyo byamarira abashyitsi, abaturanyi n’abagenzi. Kuko inyifato y’umugore ari yo itanga ikaze. Imyifatire mibi y’abagore ni yo yirukana ababagenderera.

Umugore arakenewe mu kurema umuryango. Ni nyina w’abana ushinzwe kubarera no kubaremamo imico myiza n’icyungo gihuza umugabo n’abaturanyi. Ni we rwego ubutunzi bunyuraho ngo bugere ku bintu bifitiye akamaro umuryango n’abandi. Nk’uko inkomoko y’umugore ari ku Mana, n’imico myiza ayikomora kuri yo. Umugore mwiza umuhabwa n’Uwiteka (Imigani 18:22). Amasengesho ye, ubwitonzi bwe, urukundo ni byo biha agaciro karemereye imirimo yo mu rugo.

Ijambo ry’Imana riduha ibyitegererezo by’abagore beza babereye imigisha imiryango yabo n’isi yose. N’ubwo batatabaye ngo bajye mu ntambara, ariko babyaye intwari, barazirera, zihesha icyubahiro izina ry’Uwiteka.

Tuzakomeza tureba ibyitegererezo by’abagore babereye imigisha imiryango yabo n’isi yose.

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