Tumenye guhumuriza abababaye - Anne Bersot

Hariho ikintu cyakomeje kuntera urujijo, ni uburyo abantu bakuru bahoza abana. Umwana ashyira urutoki mu rugi, umuntu mukuru akamufata ukuboko, agahuhaho, akamusoma ku dutoki ati “Impore!” Uzi uburyo gushyira intoki mu rugi bibabaza? Mbese utekereza ko guhuha ku ntoki byabuza umwana kubabara?

Kubabara kw’abandi gukomeza kutumvikana, kandi akenshi tubura icyo dukora: Nasubiza iki? Navuga iki? Nakora iki? Byashoboka ko umuntu abivugishwa no kwanga kugira icyo afasha uri mu kaga, cyangwa kwibuza kubitekerezaho, akavuga gusa ati “Ndaguhuhiraho, impore!” Yobu yarababaye cyane, akajya ataka afite agahinda ati “Ayii, iyaba umubabaro wanjye washoboraga kugerwa, n’ibyago byose bigashyirwa ku bipimo! Kuko byarusha umusenyi wo ku nyanja kuremera…” Yobu 6:2, nyamara incuti ze zamuciragaho iteka, zikamugisha impaka “Ariko muri abahimbyi b’ibinyoma” Yobu 13 :4.

Twebwe tubabarana dute n’abababaye? Duhora dushaka gukora ibyiza, n’umutima ukunze, ariko guhoza ubabaye ni intambwe ikomeye, ndetse ni inzira inyerera. Bisaba kuba wuzuye urukundo, no kwihangana, n’ubwenge, no kutihimbaza.

Dore amakosa abantu bakunze gukora, nayatoranyije ngo nyakwereke nawe uyirinde rwose:

- Kwihunza ikibazo ushingiye ku murongo wa Bibiliya utari wo, cyangwa ikindi gitekerezo cyo gutebya. Urugero, umukobwa ubabajwe n’uko ashaje adashatse (atarongowe) wowe ukamubwira uti “Kandi wishimire Uwiteka… .”. uwo murongo yawufashe mu mutwe, awushyira mu bikorwa n’umutima we wose. Ahubwo ushobora kongera kumukomeretsa, umukuramo ibyo yari asanzwe azi kandi ibyo umubwira nta cyo biri buhindure ku kibazo afite.

- Kwitangaho urugero: “Nanjye byambayeho, kandi nabisohotsemo neza.” Urugero, umugore umaze gupfusha umwana we ntukamubwire ngo “Oh, uzabyara abandi. Maze nanjye nakuyemo inda mu mwaka w’1975!” (Yego birababaje kuba warakuyemo inda mu mwaka w’1975, ariko ntibiri bumugarurire umwana we yabuze. Ikindi, kuba azabyara abandi si inkuru ijyanye n’icyo gihe arimo kuko ari mu gahinda. Ugomba rero guha agaciro ibihe arimo).

- Kunenga icyateye umubabaro: “Hari n’abandi banyura mu bibagoye kurusha ibyawe, ibyo biroroshye, ntibikwiriye kugutesha igihe.” Umubabaro ntugerwa ku munzani, ntubasha kugera icyateye umubabaro w’undi. Arababaye, icyo ni cyo cya ngombwa.

Izi ni ingero, ariko ndizera ko mu buzima bwawe bwa buri munsi hari hari ibindi uzagenda ubona. Reka rero twirebeho ubwacu: Ubwo nari mbabaye ni nde wampojeje? Ni ibihe bitekerezo byaba byarababaje umutima wanjye? Nta kindi cyagufasha kubimenya, keretse ubwawe ubaye warabinyuzemo.

Ni ukuri, ku bwanjye ndashima Imana kuko yandinze umubabaro n’ikiriyo. Mu rugendo rwanjye nabonye barumuna banjye na bakuru banjye beza, buzuye urukundo, bumva amarira yanjye nta cyo ndababwira, bamfasha mu bifatika bagatekera umuryango wanjye, bakansengera, bakamfata mu maboko buzuye impuhwe nyinshi. Ubu nta burenganzira mfite bwo kubwira umuntu ngo “Impore”bitavuye ku mutima, ahubwo ndamwumva by’ukuri. Ibyo ni byo Yesu yakoze, kandi ni cyo adushakaho twese.

Anne Bersot