Menya imirimo abagore bakijijwe bakora ikaba imigisha ku ngo zabo.

Imana mu buhanga bwayo butangaje yaremye umugabo n’umugore kugirango bafatanye kugera kubyo bateganya kugeraho kandi babashe kuzuza imigambi Imana yari ibafitiye. Umugambi w’Imana mu kurema umugabo n’umugore wari uko buri wese yagombaga kugira inshingano zo kwita kuri mugenzi iminsi y’ubuzima bwabo bwose.

Gusa ikibabaje nuko muri iyi minsi, bamwe mububatse ingo badaha agaciro umugambi w’Imana yari ibafiteho ikibarema ahubwo bakabifata nk’umutwaro uremereye kugira uwo murushingana ukamwitaho akaramata.

Muri iyi minsi ingo nyinshi zugarijwe n’ibibazo bitandukanye birimo gucana inyuma kw’abashakanye, kutizerana, gusesagura umutungo, kuburira umwanya uwo mwashakanye n’ibindi bahindura urwitwazo bigatuma umubano mwiza wabashakanye ugenda ukendera . ibyo byose bigatuma habaho kutumvikana kandi bigasenya urugo bityo bigatuma umugambi Imana yari ifite ku bantu bayo utagera ku ntego zawo kuko iki kibazo kigira ingaruka mbi no kubana.

Reka turebere hamwe ibintu abagore bakwiriye gukorera abagabo babo kugira ngo buzuze inshingano Imana yabahaye:

1.Fasha umugabo wawe kwirinda icyaha cy’ubusambanyi

Mu gihe umugabo ariwe wakwifatira icyemezo cyo kubera umugore we indahemuka,abagore nabo bakwiye gukora uko bashoboye bakabarinda kugwa mu cyaha cy’ubusambanyi.

Bagore,ese muziko urukundo rwanyu rushobora kunyura abagabo banyu kandi bigatuma batararikira abagore b’inzaduka?. Abagore benshi ntibashaka kumva ibi, ariko bakwiye gukora ibishoboka byose bakereka urukundo abagabo babo bakabarinda kugira undi mugore bararikira bityo urugo rwanyu rukarushaho kuzuza umugambi w’ Imana, muyikunda kandi muyubaha.

“Isoko yawe ihirwe,kandi wishimire umugore w’ubusore bwawe.Nk’imparakazi ikundwa n’isirabo nziza,amabere ye ahore akunezeza,kandi ujye wishimira cyane urukundo rwe. Mwana wanjye, kuki wakwishimira umugore w’inzaduka?Imigani5:18-20

2. Igisha umugabo wawe kugira imibereho ishaka Imana

“Namwe bagore ni uko mugandukire abagabo banyu, kugirango nubwo abagabo bamwe batumvira ijambo ry’Imana bareshywe n’ingeso nziza z’abagore babo, nubwo baba ari nta jambo bavuze babonye ingeso zanyu zitunganye zifatanije no kubaha.(1 Petero:3:1-2).

Abagore bakwiye rwose kubaha abagabo babo kandi bakagira imibereho ikunda Imana kugirango n’abagabo babo babigireho. Abagore bakwiye kugira uruhare runini mu gutuma urugo ruyoboka Imana kandi bagomba kumenya ko urugo rwubaha Imana rugira imigisha myinshi.

3. Gerageza gukunda umugabo wawe wenyine.

Abagabo nabo bakenera gushaka abagore babitayeho, babakunda kandi babaha agaciro. Bakwiye kandi gukomeza isezerano bagiranye bashyingirwa, bakamenya ko babaye umwe kandi bakagira kubaha Imana mu mitima ya bo. ((Itangiriro 2:21-24).

Bagore mufite inshingano ikomeye yo kubaha ubuzima bw’abagabo banyu. Mugomba kumenya ko mukwiye kuzuza inshingano Imana yabategetse, mureshyeshya abagabo banyu ingeso nziza zubaha Imana kugira ngo na bo bakure mu bya mwuka wera .

Sophie @Agakiza.org