Imyitwarire 10 y’abagore ituma ingo zabo zijegajega zikaba zasenyuka

Lindsey Maestas yatangaje ko we n’abandi bagore bakenera gukundwa naho abagabo bagakenera kubahwa.

Uyu mubyeyi ukora itangazamakuru rya gikirisitu yatangaje imyitwarire 10 abagore bakunda kugira bigatuma batabasha kubaha abagabo bigatera ingo kujegajega mu gihe batagize ubwenge.

1. Kutabasha gutegeka amarangamutima

Hari ubwo umugore atagenga amarangamutima ye bigatuma umugabo we hari ubwo agera mu rugo ntabashe gutegeka amarangamutima, harimo kurira, n’andi marangamutima. Ukwiriye kumwereka amarangamutima yawe no kuba umunyakuri mu magamo nta mbaraga ushyize mu gushaka kumuhisha.

2. Gushaka kwishyira hejuru

Abagore bakunda kurangwa no gushaka kwishyira hejuru ku bagabo babo bashaka ko bagendera ku bitekerezo byabo. Bakibagirwa ko iyi myitwarire ishobora kubasenyera ingo. Umugabo akwiriye kugira uruhare mu gufata ibyemezo yishimye kuko aba akeneye kugaragaza ko ari umurinzi w’umuryango.

3. Imyitwarire y’amahane n’uburakari

Yakobo: 1:19-20 “ Nuko rero bene Data bakundwa umuntu wese yihutire kumva ariko atinde kuvuga, kandi atinde kurakara kuko uburakari bw’abantu budasohoza ibyo gukiranuka kw’Imana.”
Iyi myitwarire ikunze kugaragara mu miryango myinshi. Ariko nk’umugore uba ugomba kubanza ugatekereza wenyine ikintu gishobora kuba cyateza amahane mu muryango mbere yuko mu kiganiraho. Amahane n’uburakari birasenya ntabwo byubaka.

4. Kugezura cyane no kutagirira uwo mwashakanye ikizere

Ikizere ni ingingo ikomeye mu mibanire y’abantu. Ntabwo abantu bakwiriye kubana bacengana umwe agenzura undi cyane ahubwo bakwiye kubana buzuzanya. Nubwo haboneka ibyo mutumvikanaho ariko uba ukwiriye kugirira ikizere umugabo wawe, ukamusengera uka mwereka Imana. Mukagira undi muryango w’inshuti muzajya muganira mukagirana inama.

5. Kuvuga cyane ibitagenda

Imigani: 18:21 “Ururimi nirwo rwica kandi nirwo rukiza, Abarukunda bazatungwa n’icyo ruzana.”
Niba umara igihe cyawe kinini uvuga ku bitagenda, ntuha ugaciro ibigenda neza ngo abaribyo uvuga, bizatuma ugera ahantu hatari heza. Amagambo yawe afite ubushobozi yo kukubaka cyangwa yo kugusenya.

6. Kuganira ku mugabo wawe mu bandi

Hari abagore bagenda bavuga abagabo babo mu bandi bantu, rimwe na rimwe abana babo bagatangira kwibaza ubuyobozi bwa papa wabo mu gihe bagenda bumva amagambo avugwa ku mubyeyi wabo yarageze hanze.
Iyi myitwarire iteza amakimbirane mu muryango bigatuma umugabo yareka zimwe mu nshingano ze nk’umukuru w’umuryango.

7. Kwishimira abandi bagabo ugatangira no gusabana nabo

Umugore wishimira abandi bagabo agatangira gusabana nabo mu buryo bugaragara n’uburyo bugaragara aba ari kwikururira mu ngeso z’ubusambanyi Imana yanga urunuka. Mu gihe wemereye umuntu ngo mushakane aba atwaye igice kimwe cy’ubuzima bwawe. Mu gihe mutari kumwe ntabwo uba wuzuye.

8. Kubika inzika

Abagore bakunda kubika ibintu bibi abagabo babakoreye aho kugirango babiganireho ndetse bijye ahagaragara. Ibi bituma imiryango ibana mu rwikekwe kubera ko batagira umwanya wo kuganira ku bibazo bagiranye ngo babicoce basabane imbabazi.

9. Kugerageza umugabo

Abagore bakunda gukora ibikorwa bashotora abagabo kugirango barebe uburyo bitwara. Ariko bigira ingaruka ikomeye kuko uko ukomeza kumugerageza bituma umuremamo umutima mubi. Ku buryo agutakariza ikizere.

10. Kwigereranya n’indi miryango

Bagore mu gihe ugereranya urugo rwawe n’izindi ngo mukagereranya abagabo banyu n’abandi bagabo muzi niko mugenda muva mu mugambi w’Imana yari ifite ibagira umwe.
Kutanyurwa n’uwo mwashakanye ukumva urashaka abandi bagabo ni ikintu gikomeye gisenya urugo kuko nta rugo rumera nk’urundi.

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