Ese waba uzi bimwe mu bituma kwifata binanirana n’uko byacika ?

Ubusambanyi ni ikibazo cyugarije isi yose, ari urubyiruko, abubatse ingo ndetse n’abapfakazi, kubw’ibi byatumye za leta z’isi yose harimo n’u Rwanda zihaguruka zitanga umutungo mwinshi kugirango barebe ko abantu babureka cyangwa se byibura ngo bakumire ingaruka ziterwa nabwo, ariko ikigaragara ni uko abantu bamaze kubona ko kwifata ari inzozi.

Bimwe mu bibazo bijya bigora abantu ni ukuvura indwara nabi, akaba ari nayo mpamvu ikibazo cyo kwifata cyangwa icyo ababishobora bakora, kitari gikwiriye kwibazwa n’abantu benshi mbere ahubwo hakwiye kubanza kurebwa ngo ni mpamvu ki ubusambanyi bwiyongera kandi hakoreshejwe imbaraga za leta n’iz’amadini ku burwanya, nyamara n’ubwo bwagakwiriye kuboneka mu rubyiruko gusa kuko wenda ari bo baba bararikiye imibonano mpuza bitsina ugasanga no mu bubatse ingo induru zivuga, akaba ari nayo mpamvu hatavuga kwifata gusa ahubwo havugwa n’ubudahemuka.

Impamvu ubusambanyi bwiyongera mu bashakanye.

Abagabo bamwe bakunze kutamesa kamwe ngo bamenye ko bamaze guhitamo, bagakururana n’abari urungano rwabo bityo bikababaviramo kugwa mu mutego wo gusambana.

Abagabo bamwe bakeka ko abafasha babo batabitaho nyamara biterwa no kuba bananijwe n’imirimo yo murugo.

Mu gihe hatari urugwiro, guhuza ikiganiro, haboneka urwikekwe bigatumwa umwe ajya gushakira kunezerwa hanze

Kudahana agaciro.

N’ubwo ubuzima bwa buri munsi bukenewe kandi busaba kujya gushakisha ari ko ntago bukuraho gushaka umwanya uhagije wo kubaka urukundo hagari y’abashakanye.

Nyuma yo kubona umugabo hari bamwe mu bagore birara bakumva ko byarangiye nyamara iyo utitaye ku mugabo wawe ngo wigarurure umutima we jya umenya ko umutima we ishonjeye kwitabwaho.

Impamvu ubusambanyi bwiyongera mu rubyiruko

Mu gihe umusore cyangwa inkumi atiha agaciro ngo anahe agaciro urugo azubaka bimutera kwitwara nabi.
Bamwe basambana kubwo kwiheba no kutimenya.
Kutagira intego z’ubuzima bwabo n’iyerekwa ry’ejo hazaza.
Kubura ubwenge n’irari ry’umutungo nyamara imitungo siyo ikwiye kuza imbere mu kubaka urugo.

N’ubwo ibi bivuzwe atari bishya mu matwi yacu ariko:

Iyaba umugabo yatekerezaga agaciro k’umugore we yikundiye ubwe,bagasezerana kubana akaramata, ntago yamurutisha indaya yananiranye n’umuryango idafite n’icyo izamumarira, ahubwo yirirwa isambanywa na benshi.

Umugore yibutse ishema arusha abandi bakobwa babuze urushako ntago yasuzugura umugabo cg ngo yibagirwe inshingano ze.

Mu gihe urubyiruko rwagutse mu bwenge bakumva n’agaciro bafite, byabahesha kutisuzuguza bene ako kageni ngo ngize ubusugi cyangwa ubumanzi bwabo,
Nyuma yo gusobanukirwa ibi, kwifata birashoboka, niba byari bimaze no kukunanira icara hamwe ufate icyemezo wigire kuri ubu bwenge buragufasha kunesha no gushobora ibyo wabonaga bidashoboka mu buzima bwawe maze ejo hawe hazaba nk’uko ubyifuza

Erenest Rutagungira