Bakobwa mwirinde intoki zabahungu zibakorakora zitagira gahunda!

Hari ubwo ujya ubona abana b’abahungu bafite udutoki duhora turyaryata, bashaka iteka gukora ku bakobwa, hari abazi kubikora bitonze, muri buri kiganiro n’umukobwa aba ashaka kumufata k’urutugu, mu mayunguyungu, iteka aba ashaka kubahanagura imyanda hari nabashaka no kubakandakanda mu mugongo, kubakandakanda ku ntugu, kubashimashima mu mutwe, gukanda kanda intoki, hari n’abakobwa njya mbona batagira isoni zo kwicara ku bibero by’abasore, mbega ubupfu bwo kutamenya
imikorerey’umubiri ? N’ibindi bisa bityo, rimwe na rimwe hari ubwo biba nta n’umugambi mubi warimo ariko mwitonde bakobwa kuko imibiri yanyu uko iteye ibyutswa nibyo, buhoro buhoro bizana ingaruka ikomeye kuko umuhungu adakora hamwe gusa ngo arekere aho. Atangira kugukoraho ahoroheje, ariko ejo iyo umwemereye aba ashaka gusingira ahakomeye buke buke, bikazabyara ingaruka zikomeye, uwirinda yirinda kare.

Burya no kugendana iteka n’abahungu mufatanye mu biganza igihe kirekire siko byose ntacyo bivuze, reba nawe iyo umugabo agendana n’umwana yabyaye ari nka nijoro noneho akamufata ikiganza, burya aba amubwiye iki ? biba bisobanuye ngo ngukunda nk’umwana wanjye turi kumwe, ntugire ubwoba ndakurinze. Niko n’ibindi bimeze, burya ashobora gutangira byoroheje ariko umukobwa agasa n’uwumva ko ahari umwitayeho, wifuza kumurinda, iyo rero ari mw’ijoro umuhungu agashaka
no kumwereka ko akomeje nubwo nta jambo yaba avuze, hashobora kuvamo
gusomana, ibindi nawe ubwo urumva ibikurikira. Ejo rero igikurikira nuko ka gasore kajya kwivuga ku bandi, inkuru yuzuyemo kwirarira ikabona abayumva, ngo na wa mukobwa ni kimwe n’abandi ntakigenda.

MWITONDE BAKOBWA

Iyo umuhungu agitangira kugukorakora, mugendana bwa mbere aba yumva yishimye, kandi burya byose abiganira mu giparu n’abandi basore, iyo rero umukobwa yeretse wa muhungu ko nawe yishimira ibyo amukora, kwiyemera kwa ka gasore kurabyimba, nyuma y’iminsi mike umusore atangira kumva asa nkuhaze, impamvu nuko aba akiri muto, muby’ukuri ari ntampamvu yo kwizirika k’umuntu umwe, kuko uwo nubwo ari umusore ariko aba akiri umwana, aba akiri mu gihe cyo gushaka kumenya isi,
ibiyigize , abayituye, abari mu bushakashatsi, ubwo rero ahita abona abandi bakobwa benshi kandi beza, hakaza igitekerezo ngo reka ngerageze n’uriya na bariya ndebe itandukaniro.

Uwo musore mu bwana bwe nta nubwo aba yumva impamvu umukobwa akomeza ibyo barimo abigira ibikomeye, k’umuhungu biba bikiri umukino, ariko umukobwa we abifata nk’ urukundo. Umukobwa nawe ntaba yumva impamvu umuhungu atangiye kumwitwaraho nabi, aba yibaza icyo yakoze kidakwiye, ndetse rimwe na rimwe akiyemeza no gukora ibindi byinshi yibwira ko byagarura umuhungu, ahubwo ntamenye ko ari kumwigizayo byimazeyo kuko yarangije kumurunguruka. Ibyari byatangiye ari ibyishimo k’umukobwa bikarangira ari umubabaro utavugwa.

Kubera iki ? Umuhungu yagize ngo uko afata ibintu niko umukobwa abifata,
n’umukobwa agirango uko afata ibintu niko umuhungu abifata, reka da baratandukanye.

Ese amagambo wumva wa mukobwa afite icyo yagutwara ? Kubera ko abakobwa baremye bakunda kumva ababavugaho ibyiza, utaramenya ubwenge atwarwa n’abamutatse bose, ntamenye ko hari ababimubwira gusa ari ukumurya umutima barangiza bakareba hirya bagaseka. Ukubwira ko agaukunda wese siko biba ari ukuri, ntabwo urukundo rupimirwa ku magambo aryoshye ntihazagire ugushuka. Banza umenye ko uri uwagaciro imbere y’amaso y’Imana, si iby’abantu bavuga bigushitura kuko bashobora no kureshya gusa babeshya, ahubwo nawe ufite uburenganzira
bwo kureba, ukagenzura ukamenya neza uvuga uwo ariwe, cyangwa ukwandikira uwo ariwe, maze ugahitamo, kuko urukundo rutaba ku rurimi ahubwo ruba mu mutima, aha ndabwira abakuze, bageze igihe cyo kurongorwa. Wowe w’umwana, menya ko gutangira ibisa nibyo byagutesha umutwe gusa, kandi ari nta n’intego ifatika y’ubuzima ibirimo, tegereza ikintu cyose cyagenewe igihe cyacyo.

Urugero: Umusore wari ufite mu myaka 18 yabaga kwa mushiki we mukuru, afite umukobwa bakundana bamaranyeigihe kirekire, noneho mushiki we aza kubona uwo mukobwa atakibasura nka mbere, abaza uwo musore impamvu. Umuhungu amubwira ko hari hashize igiye amusaba ko bakorana ibyaha umukobwa yaranze ko noneho yemeye,ko icyo yari amutegerejeho yakibonye.

Ibyo byavugwagwa na mushiki we aganiriza undi mugore, uwo mugore amusubiza mumvugo yatangaje igira ati “N’ubundi umuhungu iyo yamaze kubona ikibero cy’umukobwa, amatsiko yari amufitiye aba ashize nta kindi kiba gisigaye aramwanga. Ibyiza rero ni uko abana b’abakobwa bakwirinda bagategereza abo Imana yabageneye, kuko n’ubundi agapfundikiye gatera amatsiko niko umunyarwanda yavuze.

Pastor Jules Kazura